Married or involved, with a facebook or any social networking site - account; you get a friend request or an invitation in your account from a lusciously gorgeous member of the opposite sex, with a profile of almost everything that melts your whole being, in a member of the opposite sex that you may covet? She or he, appears to be an obviously, god-given answer to nearly all of your fantasies?
Odds are, this is a bogus account of someone very close to you, out to have fun or worse still, this is your suspicious partner determined to catch the lustful you (if you are a man) or promiscuous you (if you are a lady - check out societal gender bias at its best) with your pants down. Gotcha! Right?
Oh yes you may doubt this, wondering how on earth your partner would know about all your fantasies, the features you look for in members of the opposite sex you covet or are already hitting it with on the D.L., since you would not dare tell him/her - it would be utterly suicidal. Believe it or not, the time you have been together you have inadvertently or subconsciously been letting these secrets out to your partner. Like when your partner sees a member of your opposite sex and comments that they are eye-catching, and you differ with them, they press for reasons, you give them. There you are, exposing yourself to the last person on earth you normally would.
It does not matter how faithful or trustworthy you may be or may have proven to be, neither will it be of any substance, how trustful or unassuming they may be, your partner will be mentally noting all these vital keys to your other personalities that you always try to keep away from their prying minds.
But there is solace in the fact that, that can also be somebody interested in you and is trying to find a lot about, which of course is also disturbingly dreadful if you have a manifestly dark side you would not want him or her to know. Whichever way, watch out for the tricksters. So how can you know if the people asking you to be friends with them are not out to trick you? Check how long they have been on facebook. See if they have any facebook friends apart from you. Find out more about their friends. If you are the first person to be asked for friendship, watch out – how can one create a social networking site account and the first person they send a friend request or invitation to is someone who does not have the slightest idea of who, they, the sender are?
If the day they have sent you a friend request or invitation to join, is their first day on the site, yet you do not know or do not remember who they are, be wary. If they have a friend on the site with whom you know personally, find from your friend who this person is. Bet you, when you are checking out their friends, you will hit the jackpot in no time; they will have their closest friend, relation or workmate as a friend on the site. Eureka! You have beaten them hands down at their own game.
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You see all of you my philanering friends, not just because you choose a path differrent to the rest of us do I wish you bad, I love you the same. wouldn't wish there to be problems in your families, this is why when I know that you are cheating, I do not tell on you but woulfd rahter sit you down and talk to you about it, if you choose not to take I hid, i love you all the same. Why should I judge you? And do not think that I do not judge just because judgement is for the Father, but i do not know why you sleep around? Not all of you cheat on your spouses out of sheer selfishness, some of you have been driven down this dispicable path because of the same spouses, for some of you it is all purely a psychological problem that if you were as rich as Tiger Woods and the rest of them, you would have sought therapy to be brought back and ofcourse some of you all just plain selfish but how would I know how to clssify you? And some of you cheat in search for lessons so you can please your spouses better when you go back home, so I hear. My only plea, my unconditional love for your is no guarantee for you to continue on your lastful path, work to better yourselves. By the way, look out for a publication on this blog, about why people cheat on their spouses.
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